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ignite an explosion or light a candle. |
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Crisis creates
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Danger |
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Opportunity |
choices.

Which will I choose?
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Attributes Preoccupied with an "enemy" Exclusive, individual survival Interested in own narrative only Violence, force, intimidation are acceptable Inclined to blame the "other" Tell, sell, persuade Want best for own people only Debate to be right, better, diminish other ideas Withdraw from the relationship during crises Misuse power to serve self, diminish "other" Primary allegiance to self Controlled by outer events Confrontation and control Long for the olden days |
Attributes Relate to the "other" Inclusive sense of interdependence Listen to all narratives Violence obsolete and unacceptable Take responsibility for own contribution to crisis Inquire to expand own frame of reference Want best for self and "other," equally Dialogue to uncover new social intelligence Stay in the relationship, especially in crises Use power for the good of all Primary allegiance to whole Motivated by inner principles, faith, vision, decision Cooperation and collaboration Release unprecedented creativity to invent the future |