This is about Jewish and Muslim
children finding each other in February, 2002.
Sue Schwartzman (SSchwrtzmn@aol.com) is a 7th grade
Humanities teacher at Mid-Peninsula Jewish Community Day School
(http://www.mpjcds.org/) in
Palo Alto, Calif.
Sue responded to help from Iftehkar Hai (umah82@hotmail.com)
of United Muslims of American Interfaith Alliance.
Then, girls, boys, and faculty from the Granada
Islamic School, Santa Clara, Calif. (www.granadaschool.org/) opened their doors and hearts.
Here is Sue Schwartzman's narrative of what happened.
Sue says: "One student came up to me
at the end of the field trip and said, 'You know, I used to see Muslims on the
bus or on the basketball court and they were always off by themselves, seeming
so strange and different. After today, I learned they are just like
me.'"
This initiative is
exemplary -- a "how-to" of how you can do this wherever you live.
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We had an amazing field trip last week to the Muslim
school. The day was one for building connections, insight and an
understanding for one of the world's most practiced religions. Following
a welcome by students from Granada school and an address by our own Hila David
and Rachel Steinberg on the significance of the Muslim-Jewish student dialogue,
we played an icebreaker that got students talking.
For the next part of the program, students were seated
in concentric circles with Granada on the inside and MPJCDS on the outside,
facing each other. Students from both schools had prepared a list of
questions. Our students were curious about views on arranged marriages,
the difficulties faced by wearing head coverings, praying five times a day, and
the difficulties of fasting during Ramadan. Our students were asked
questions regarding holidays, kashrut, family restrictions and the celebration
of Shabbat. Students spent a few moments sharing answers to these
questions before the inner circle rotated, providing a new discussion partner.
Following a spirited rendition of the motzi, we ate
lunch in small, single sex groups and then had a short time to play basketball
and soccer with Granada students before they had to perform "Wadu,"
the washing ritual before entering the mosque. Our students observed in
amazement the thorough cleansing that took place in specially made wash
rooms.
We then took off our shoes and entered the
mosque. We watched the Granada students line up on carpeted lines,
silently, ready to recite the prayer service. We watched the unified
choreography of their prayer that was performed in complete unity. Muslim
students recited the prayers from memorization.
The last hour of our meeting included small circles of
students sharing personal stories around religion. Students spent time in
prior classes writing on the topic and were now lending insight into personal
religious practice by sharing these stories.
We had Melanie Berman, the head of Judaic Studies at
MPJCDS, accompany us on the trip. During this small group time, Melanie
and the head of Granada's religious studies department went around giving the
groups a chance to "ask the experts" any questions relating to
religion.
By this time, students were begging for more free time
together, so the last fifteen minutes students resumed basketball and soccer
games and some even exchanged email addresses.
One student came up to me at the end of the field trip
and said, "You know, I used to see Muslims on the bus or on the basketball
court and they were always off by themselves, seeming so strange and
different. After today, I learned they are just like me."
Our students gained something invaluable last Tuesday:
they put a human face and voice to the word Muslim. Never again will
Muslims be "the other," "the weird," "the
outsiders." Now they are "just like us."