Lauren Gelfond (LGelfond@zahav.net.il) writes in Jerusalem.  She has a special ability to see beyond the surface and the obvious, to the essence -- relationships.
      Hate and violence will destroy us," says East Jerusalem Sheikh Abdhul Aziz Bhukari.  "God doesnt want people to kill each other.  He created our three religionsdifferent looks and ideas and languages so that we can learn from one another, he said, quoting from the Qoran
     We are all your children -- Jews, Christians and Muslims, said Jewish participant Hanna Jaffe in a prayer she read aloud. . . Do not let us become indifferent to the hopes and fears of our adversaries.  And for those of us who have been silent, let our voices be heard.
     Ibrahim Ahmad Abu El-Hawa, a Muslim Native of the Mount of Olives, concluded:  Every meeting between our peoples helps a lot.  Now I can go home and tell my friends about the different kinds of Israelis I met and the diversity of thought, he said. 
     I always did think the problems we have are because of the leaders and the laws.  To build peace, we need to meet human being to human being.
     You can do this where you live.  Consider it.   -- L&L

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http://www.jpost.com/Editions/2002/03/11/Features/

JERUSALEM POST, FRIDAY MARCH 8, 2002

Jewish and Muslim Faithfuls Find Common Ground Amid the Chaos

By Lauren Gelfond

     It was a sunny day at the ancient tomb of Shmuel HaNevii (Samuel the Prophet), and Ibrahim Ahmad Abu El-Hawa was standing on the cobblestone roof smiling, his time-worn face lifted to the sun. 
     Flanked by a Muslim on one side and a Jew on the other, hands locked together, he swayed in time to Sufi Muslim Zikr chants and Jewish prayers.
     I like to come together with people who have love in their hearts, he said.
     El-Hawa, a Muslim native of the Mount of Olives, was one of 20-plus Muslims, Jews and Christians who gathered in a solidarity circle this past Sunday, in the wake of Palestinian suicide and sniper attacks and IDF incursions that left more than 20 dead on both sides, Israeli and Palestinian.
     As a response to the continued bloodshed, East Jerusalem Sheikh Abdhul Aziz Bhukari called on his interfaith friends to meet for prayers and meditation at the tomb, a neutral site near Jerusalem that is holy to both Jews and Muslims.
     Hate and violence will destroy us.  God doesnt want people to kill each other.  He created our three religions different looks and ideas and languages so that we can learn from one another, he said, quoting from the Qoran and explaining that the purpose of religious devotion is to fill the heart with love of God so that life can be directed toward helping others. 
     On judgement day, we wont be judged by our religion, but by our good acts and bad acts.
     The sheikhs sixteen-year-old son Izzadin looked-on solemnly.
     Nestled high in the hills overlooking Neve Yaakov and Ramallah, sounds of singing birds, helicopters, an army radio, and an occasional shot in the distance resonated in the background, behind their rooftop prayers.  An IDF soldier stationed at the roofs side paid no attention to the gathering, peering instead into his binoculars focused on the surrounding villages.
     Shmuel was interned here for the Jews and then for the Muslims.  Now on the roof were going to pick up his spirit, joked Dr.  Yitzhak Hayut-Man, director of The Academy of Jerusalem, dressed in a long brown robe and cippah.
     Reading from the book of Schmuel, Hayut-Man and Dotan Arad explained the significance of the prophets story, teaching the power of humility and prayer, they said.  A Jerusalem nun and a native-American descendant living in the US also joined in, offering thoughts from their own traditions.
     The unusual gathering caught the curiosity and ire of one onlooker. 
     Your little peace activities are cute but naive, said David, 24, of Jerusalem. 
     The only solution is to kills as many Arabs as we can to stop them from killing us once and for all.  Just as this is a holy war for them, it also is a holy war for us, he said quietly to fellow Orthodox Jew, Eliyahu McLean, the Jerusalem-based director of the Peacemaker Community.
     Our path is a different one, explained McLean, one of the organizers.  We believe that love leads to healing and that revenge only leads to more violence.
     Dont worry, said David, asking his last name not be mentioned.  I will let you pray in peace, but you know that most of our people think as I do.
     At the tomb, where a mosque and an Orthodox synagogue are separated only by a stairwell, Muslims and Jews pass each other frequently on the way to prayers.  Here we are in good relations, said one Jewish attendant, in a black suit.
     The last 17 months and especially the last two days have been very difficult times between the children of Abraham in the land of the prophets, said McLean.  But here it is an island of tranquility, and from here we must put out positive healing vibes.
     If you change your heart, everything will change around you, said a Muslim teacher from Europe who lives in Gaza, and who asked that his name not be used. 
     Brought in by Sheikh Bukhari, it was the teachers first interfaith experience, and in his opinion, a very good idea.
     Once, religious people didnt need to share experiences with others, they could live their religious lives independently from one another, he said.  Today its definitely necessary to go beyond the outward appearances of things.  We must reach for what every spiritual person has in common with each other  the light of god in our hearts.
     Finding inspiration from God for strength, courage and love was the common theme.
     We are all your children -- Jews, Christians and Muslims, said Jewish participant Hanna Jaffe in a prayer she read aloud. 
     Cast out the darkness that has polluted our lives.  Pour your love into our suffering heartsand teach us everyone reverence for every life.  Do not let us become indifferent to the hopes and fears of our adversaries.  And for those of us who have been silent, let our voices be heard.
     While various prayers and mediations were translated into Arabic, Hebrew and English, the group followed their prayers with one universal word: amen.
     Later after the meeting closed, El-Hawa continued to smile, as the afternoon sun melted into haze and wind around him.  Every meeting between our peoples helps a lot.  Now I can go home and tell my friends about the different kinds of Israelis I met and the diversity of thought, he said. 
     I always did think the problems we have are because of the leaders and the laws.  To build peace, we need to meet human being to human being.