In Arabic, Hebrew,
English — a Process of Change,
from fear to community
17 July 2009
Someday, after mastering winds, waves, tides and
gravity, we shall harness the energies of love.
And then, for the second time in the history of
the world, man will discover fire.
"The task before us now, if we would not
perish, is to build the Earth."
Pierre
Teilhard de Chardin
The text below
is about Fear -- mostly a "how-to" for moving beyond fear, beyond
war.
On the ground.
"The default setting of humans is to take
sides," says Stanford professor Fred Luskin.
Most people are "for" their cause -- in
solidarity with their people.
Protecting their own land,
ideas, and institutions.
Distancing themselves from, and increasingly ignorant
about, the perceived "other," increasingly fearful, more easily
scared.
The smaller our sphere, the
greater our fear.
Tragically, fear paralyzes our imagination and
causes our brains to rationalize less-humane, war-like acts in our
relationships.
If our sphere of identification is limited, then
anything outside our circle-in-the-sand is a potential enemy.
When the enemy is perceived as too threatening, we may
justify killing.
Wars result from identification that is too limited,
confined to the small collective.
Our survival depends on expanding our
identification to include the largest frame of reference, the whole of
humankind, including our enemies.
Like a new chick, we must break out of our shell or
stay confined and die
Into Arabic, Hebrew, and English has finally been
translated a useful Process of Change.
This is a personal, national, and international road
map to expanding our identiification.
It is to move from from
fear that accompanies ignorance, distance, and war.
Taken seriously, it leads to engagement,
communication, and cooperation forever.
A Public Peace Process of Change
New
visuals for living beyond war
Arabic ~ Hebrew
~ English
with Explanations in English
http://traubman.igc.org/changechartsall.pdf
Arabic ~ Hebrew
only
http://traubman.igc.org/changechartsme.pdf
English
only
http://traubman.igc.org/changecharts.pdf
We now
see how to reclaim a world that for too long has been driven by fear and
limited identification -- the illusion that there is individual survival.
We are all cells of one living body.
One, echad, wahad, uno, odin.
Name your language; it's always the mystical, practical
truth.
Thousands, then millions and billions of individual
citizens must begin entering into this "sacred activism."
Embodying what we want life to look like, first in
small groups, then governments will follow.
"Nobody can go back and start a new
beginning,
but anyone can start today and make a new ending."
Maria
Robinson
In the
1980s, no group better modeled the ending of apartheid than the brave
Blacks and Whites of Koinonia Southern Africa.
Starting with the vision of one Afrikaner,
eventually tens of thousands of youth and adult Blacks and Whites shared meals
and stories.
And changed.
Surrendered fear.
In the safety of their homes, then
in public at risk to their lives.
To help change the fabric of culture
and move South Africa closer together.
Beyond fear.
"You grow out of it," said Afrikaner Ena van der Merwe.
Today, for the first time on the Internet, see
VIDEO of her and the courageous citizen change-agents of Koinonia Southern Africa.
Koinonia Southern Africa (5 mins)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7iomC0jDF_c
To shape our future
we must understand fear
no longer be manipulated by fear
and instead heal and prevent fear
New
RESOURCES
to understand FEAR
in Arabic, Hebrew, and
English
What Lies Beneath the
Fear
by Simon Lawson
Common Ground News - 02 July 2009
English: http://www.commongroundnews.org/article.php?id=25801&lan=en&sid=0&sp=1&isNew=0
Arabic: http://www.commongroundnews.org/article.php?id=25823&lan=ar&sid=0&sp=0&isNew=0
Hebrew: http://www.commongroundnews.org/article.php?id=25828&lan=he&sid=0&sp=0&isNew=0
Fears of War and Fears of
Peace
in the Palestinian Israeli relationship
by Lucy Nusseibeh
and Shelley Ostroff
Common Ground News - 02 July 2009
English: http://www.commongroundnews.org/article.php?id=25799&lan=en&sid=0&sp=1&isNew=0
Arabic: http://www.commongroundnews.org/article.php?id=25822&lan=ar&sid=0&sp=0&isNew=0
Hebrew: http://www.commongroundnews.org/article.php?id=25827&lan=he&sid=0&sp=0&isNew=0
Fear of the other, fear
of the friend
by Roi Ben-Yehuda
Common Ground News - 09 July 2009
English: http://www.commongroundnews.org/article.php?id=25870&lan=en&sid=0&sp=1&isNew=0
Arabic: http://www.commongroundnews.org/article.php?id=25865&lan=ar&sid=0&sp=0&isNew=0
Hebrew: http://www.commongroundnews.org/article.php?id=25874&lan=he&sid=0&sp=0&isNew=0
Shrinking the gap:
Our fears about the Middle East and our identity group
by Barbara Landau and Dr. George Awad
Common Ground News - 09 July 2009
English: http://www.commongroundnews.org/article.php?id=25841&lan=en&sid=0&sp=0&isNew=1
Arabic: http://www.commongroundnews.org/article.php?id=25866&lan=ar&sid=0&sp=0&isNew=0
Hebrew: http://www.commongroundnews.org/article.php?id=25875&lan=he&sid=0&sp=0&isNew=0
The right to live! The
Courage to be afraid
by Jona Bargur
Common Ground News - 16 July 2009
English: http://www.commongroundnews.org/article.php?id=25885&lan=en&sid=0&sp=0&isNew=1
Arabic: http://www.commongroundnews.org/article.php?id=25915&lan=ar&sid=0&sp=0&isNew=0
Hebrew: http://www.commongroundnews.org/article.php?id=25920&lan=he&sid=0&sp=0&isNew=0
Seeing beyond fear
by Saliba Sarsar and Hiyam Zakharia Sarsar
Common Ground News - 16 July 2009
English: http://www.commongroundnews.org/article.php?id=25884&lan=en&sid=0&sp=0&isNew=1
Arabic: http://www.commongroundnews.org/article.php?id=25914&lan=ar&sid=0&sp=0&isNew=0
Hebrew: http://www.commongroundnews.org/article.php?id=25919&lan=he&sid=0&sp=0&isNew=0
Fear: the underrated
enabler
by Paul Scham
Common Ground News - 30 July 2009
English: http://www.commongroundnews.org/article.php?id=25993&lan=en&sid=0&sp=0
Arabic: http://www.commongroundnews.org/article.php?id=26022&lan=ar&sid=0&sp=0&isNew=0
Hebrew: http://www.commongroundnews.org/article.php?id=26027&lan=he&sid=0&sp=0&isNew=0
The above valuable narratives and social science on the causes,
outcomes, healing, and prevention of fear will be preserved by Common Ground
News at http://www.commongroundnews.org/series.php?sid=0&lan=en&edId=2388
.
Palestinians and Jews:
Living Beyond Fear
by Lionel Traubman
Middle East Times - 17 June 2009
http://traubman.igc.org/fearmetimes.pdf