The Arts (and Imperatives) of Listening and Living Together

11 April 2019

 

"Before children talk they sing.

Before they write they draw.

As soon as they stand they dance.

Art is fundamental to human expression."

~ Phylicia Rashad

“Another world is not only possible, she is on her way.

On a quiet day, I can hear her breathing.”

~Arundhati Roy

"If we want a new future, we have to have a new story."

~Paul Costello

Founder, New Story Leadership

In our new story of this, The Citizens' Century, clearly life-giving Change is no longer top-down, government-only determined.
Creating another world now begins from horizontal, citizen-driven, intimate and mass communication among equally human citizens, especially between supposed "enemies."

Here are some of the artists, writers, and exemplars breathing life into building the Earth anew.

TODAY
1. The Art of Social Weaving
2. The Art of Theater and Storytelling
3. The The Art of Film As Context for Relationship and Community Building
4. The Art of Writing A New Story of Life Beyond Taking Sides
5. The (he)Art of Camp Life to Heal Relationships
6.  Enrichment


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The Art of
Social Weaving
In February, 2019, columnist David Brooks penned: "A Nation of Weavers: The social renaissance is happening from the ground up."
The writer had help birth WEAVE: The Social Fabric Project -- https://www.aspeninstitute.org/programs/weave-the-social-fabric-initiative/
Brooks' column about becoming artisans of communication concluded:

"Culture changes when a small group of people, often on the margins of society, find a better way to live, and other people begin to copy them. These Weavers have found a better way to live. We at Weave and all of us need to illuminate their example, synthesize their values so we understand what it means to be a relationalist and not an individualist. We need to create hubs where these decentralized networks can come together for solidarity and support. We need to create a shared Weaver identity. In 1960, few people called themselves feminists. By 1980, millions did. Just creating that social identity and that sense of mutual purpose is an act of great power.

"I guess my ask is that you declare your own personal declaration of interdependence and decide to become a Weaver instead of a ripper. This is partly about communication. Every time you assault and stereotype a person, you’ve ripped the social fabric. Every time you see that person deeply and make him or her feel known, you’ve woven it.

".....Renewal is building, relationship by relationship, community by community. It will spread and spread as the sparks fly upward.
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A Nation of Weavers

The social renaissance is happening from the ground up.

David Brooks

The New York Times - 18 February 2019

https://www.nytimes.com/2019/02/18/opinion/culture-compassion.html

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The Art of
Theater and Storytelling
In the Middle East, TOGETHER BEYOND WORDS (TBW) -- http://www.en.beyondwords.org.il -- says: "We are creating a place for both narratives in people's hearts."

Most Arab and Jewish youth across the land are disconnected, with only 1,000 of 1,660,000 of them in Israel attending common schools together.
The majority will not meet or interact in any depth on a regular basis, except maybe when and if they go to college or university.

To increase diversity appreciation, and transcend biased attitudes while strengthening understanding and empathy towards the "other," Arab and Jewish young women of Heart of Our Stories Ensemble perform and lead dialogue circles in diverse academic institutions throughout the country.

 

The Heart of Our Stories:

Arab and Jewish students unite in Playback Theater

6-min video - Feb 2019

https://youtu.be/bBR2CXWeDwk

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The Art of Film
As Context for
Relationship and Community Building
April, 2019, in San Mateo, California USA, diverse women, men, and youth from many neighborhoods -- mostly strangers to one another -- gathered in a large, single circle around a flag of Planet Earth.

An Experiential Evening of Engagement and Film included multi-racial citizens from Asia, Africa, Europe, and South and North America, and many faith traditions who answered an invitation from the local Jewish-Palestinian Living Room Dialogue and Peninsula Conflict Resolution Center.

ADMISSIONS, the short film, depicts an Israeli couple and a Palestinian man who create a modern parable for our times, with the possibility of starting a conversation that heals.
The film streams freely for all to view at https://pepstar.org/peace-entertainment-admissions/ and in Arabic, Hebrew, Farsi, Spanish, and Italian at https://pepstar.org/peace-entertainment-admissions/

A Palestinian participant reflected: "I am eager to give more time to involvement with these kinds of activities, because this is where people experience needed hope, love, and faith to change what is happening.  I want to hope."
An African immigrant:  "...such an incredible dialogue circle of wonderful people from around the world. My daughter loved it, too!!!"
SEE PHOTOS:

 

BEYOND TAKING SIDES:

Growing from blame toward empathy and community

https://traubman.igc.org/admissionseveningstory.pdf

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The Art of Writing
A New Story of Life
Beyond Taking Sides
"I’m done taking sides. I'm exhausted," writes Julia Malaga, a New Jersey executive, columnist, and seeker of respectful engagement and community.
Taking one side will "simply embolden and strengthen the other side."

"What if I just listen and learn...regardless of the side...refuse to justify...refuse to be labeled by either side for standing up for the other when necessary."

"It’s not easy to give up the place where our heels are dug in deep. 
I want to live in a world where we go beyond the primitive, reptilian brains that respond to fear, into our logical brains and our [largest] hearts to listen to everyone’s story and find common ground."

 

Finding a Place Beyond Taking Sides

Julia Malaga

Times of Israel Blog - 09 April 2019

https://blogs.timesofisrael.com/finding-a-place-beyond-taking-sides/

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The (he)Art of Camp Life
to Heal Relationships
Many people do their very best together in nature.
Heart to Heart -- https://www.heart-to-heart.ca -- in Canada brings together a new generation of Jewish and Palestinian youth to become leaders who model the building of a shared society, and possess the relationships and skills to make it a reality.

Each year, a group of 20 youth aged 14-15, half Palestinian citizens of Israel and half Jewish citizens of Israel, live together in an immersive three-and-a-half-week camp-based program in Perth, Ontario.
The young women and men dedicate themselves to relationship building activities and facilitated dialogue about the narratives, politics, and power dynamics that shape their daily lives back home.

They are becoming a "generation that may hold the key, not just to another peace process, but to a real understanding of the other side of the story," observes Mary Weins of CBC Radio.

 

Canadian summer camp brings Jewish and Palestinian teens together

CTV News - 2-1/2 min video

https://www.ctvnews.ca/canada/canadian-summer-camp-brings-jewish-and-palestinian-teens-together-1.3057114

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Enrichment

 

Heal The World

Youth artists

7-min music video

https://youtu.be/h6d6Yo3DwVI


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